Failure Isn't An Option! Have you ever almost given up on reefing? Be honest!

Have you ever almost given up on reefing? Share your story in the comments!

  • Yes. I have faced situations that almost made me give up.

    Votes: 13 38.2%
  • No. I have faced adversity, but never thought about giving up.

    Votes: 9 26.5%
  • No. I have never faced a situation that made me want to give up.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I have given up before, but I am reefing/planning to reef again.

    Votes: 9 26.5%
  • I have given up, and I don't plan to reef again.

    Votes: 1 2.9%
  • Other - please explain.

    Votes: 2 5.9%

  • Total voters
    34

AlyciaMarie

Where's my anemone?
View Badges
Joined
Feb 12, 2024
Messages
1,692
Reaction score
4,005
Location
Georgia, USA
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
I don't think anyone can argue that we don't fall into frustrating situations with our reefs at some point. Whether it's pesky hitch-hikers, super stubborn algae, or a devastating loss of livestock, we all have (or will have) a story that makes us say, "I almost gave up." What's yours?...

Have you ever almost given up on reefing? Share your story!

The Office I Give Up GIF
 
OP
OP
AlyciaMarie

AlyciaMarie

Where's my anemone?
View Badges
Joined
Feb 12, 2024
Messages
1,692
Reaction score
4,005
Location
Georgia, USA
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
I'll kick it off.

With my first tank, I did give up (for a short period of time). Life and school got in the way, and I didn't have the time to dedicate to maintaining my tank. I rehomed all my livestock and took a break for about 5 years. Now I'm back and feeling good about how things are going! Life still can get in the way, but I'm much better at managing my time and priorities.
 

Crabs McJones

I'm so shi-nay
View Badges
Joined
Jul 24, 2017
Messages
27,984
Reaction score
140,491
Location
Wisconsin
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
I didn't almost give up....I did give up. Would like to get back in though some day.
 

exnisstech

Grumpy old man
View Badges
Joined
Feb 11, 2019
Messages
10,786
Reaction score
15,652
Location
Ashland Ohio
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
The closest I came was when I introduced velvet into my oldest tank with fish I've had for years. I was just going to let them all die and get rid of the tank. I like corals but my fish are pets and I bond with my pets so loosing them takes a toll. My family shamed me into making an attempt to save them so I set up a stock tank to treat them all. I lost a lot but was able to save two of my oldest fish so it was worth the effort.
This gal made it through and has now been with me for 8 years
PXL_20241107_012353671.jpg


Another survivor who has now been with me for over 6 years. I'm glad I didn't give up.
image.jpg
 

cdemoss01

Valuable Member
View Badges
Joined
Sep 8, 2023
Messages
1,897
Reaction score
3,149
Location
Roanoke
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
The closest I came was when I introduced velvet into my oldest tank with fish I've had for years. I was just going to let them all die and get rid of the tank. I like corals but my fish are pets and I bond with my pets so loosing them takes a toll. My family shamed me into making an attempt to save them so I set up a stock tank to treat them all. I lost a lot but was able to save two of my oldest fish so it was worth the effort.
This gal made it through and has now been with me for 8 years
PXL_20241107_012353671.jpg


Another survivor who has now been with me for over 6 years. I'm glad I didn't give up.
image.jpg
This is satisfying to see.
 
OP
OP
AlyciaMarie

AlyciaMarie

Where's my anemone?
View Badges
Joined
Feb 12, 2024
Messages
1,692
Reaction score
4,005
Location
Georgia, USA
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
Thank you to everyone who has shared so far. Let's keep it going. I feel like these stories can be very encouraging to some struggling reefers.

P.S. I added some new poll options to fit some of the answers so far!
 

Reefer Matt

Reef Cave Dweller
View Badges
Joined
May 15, 2021
Messages
7,031
Reaction score
31,581
Location
Michigan
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
I quit in 2006 because of financial reasons then came back in 2018 when I could actually afford it. Nowadays I’m thinking about downsizing a lot, but not completely out.
 

Dburr1014

10K Club member
View Badges
Joined
May 8, 2016
Messages
11,436
Reaction score
11,110
Location
CT
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
Thank you to everyone who has shared so far. Let's keep it going. I feel like these stories can be very encouraging to some struggling reefers.

P.S. I added some new poll options to fit some of the answers so far!
I didn't see the poll at first, lol. I voted.

I feel like option 5, "I've given up", will get zero votes cuz they probably don't come to r2r anymore.
 

Rhetoric

Community Member
View Badges
Joined
Apr 25, 2023
Messages
51
Reaction score
105
Location
Colorado
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
My first go was a used 90 off Craigslist. Moved it at midnight (guy was getting a divorce, whole story in itself) with NO previous aquarium experience.

The 90 lived for a year and half until a heater failure. Total loss Ishould have bought a new heater... noob.
217792rs_first_pic_3-31-09.jpg.2bbc3a881fb8038b46fa464b948a8efd.jpg
It sat empty in the living room for a year before rebooting. Got another a year and half or so before the tank sprung a leak (small and slow got lucky). That was in 2009.
FB_IMG_1722812377315.thumb.jpg.cf51dd59aa306426e2f14a57832f896e.jpg
2022 - Started my Nano coming up on 2 years this round.
20241103_204054.jpg


What have I learned? Bigger isn't always better.
 

ChrisfromBrick

Valuable Member
View Badges
Joined
Mar 29, 2024
Messages
1,089
Reaction score
1,350
Location
Brick, NJ
Rating - 100%
1   0   0
My first go was a used 90 off Craigslist. Moved it at midnight (guy was getting a divorce, whole story in itself) with NO previous aquarium experience.

The 90 lived for a year and half until a heater failure. Total loss Ishould have bought a new heater... noob.
217792rs_first_pic_3-31-09.jpg.2bbc3a881fb8038b46fa464b948a8efd.jpg
It sat empty in the living room for a year before rebooting. Got another a year and half or so before the tank sprung a leak (small and slow got lucky). That was in 2009.
FB_IMG_1722812377315.thumb.jpg.cf51dd59aa306426e2f14a57832f896e.jpg
2022 - Started my Nano coming up on 2 years this round.
20241103_204054.jpg


What have I learned? Bigger isn't always better.
you took a huge loss and came back. You’re here now and glad to have you.
 

BryanM

Active Member
View Badges
Joined
Jun 27, 2024
Messages
385
Reaction score
343
Location
Morgan Hill
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
I haven't been in it long enough to know. I've managed to steer clear of a lot of early pitfalls, but at some point I'm sure something will happen that will have me questioning myself and if I want to continue.
 

Rhetoric

Community Member
View Badges
Joined
Apr 25, 2023
Messages
51
Reaction score
105
Location
Colorado
Rating - 0%
0   0   0
you took a huge loss and came back. You’re here now and glad to have you.
It took all those losses to understand a few things. It's okay to have a small tank if that fits your lifestyle. I don't think people understand the commitment a large tank takes.
 

TOP 10 Trending Threads

HAVE YOU EVER ALMOST GIVEN UP ON REEFING? SHARE YOUR STORY IN THE COMMENTS!

  • Yes. I have faced situations that almost made me give up.

    Votes: 13 38.2%
  • No. I have faced adversity, but never thought about giving up.

    Votes: 9 26.5%
  • No. I have never faced a situation that made me want to give up.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I have given up before, but I am reefing/planning to reef again.

    Votes: 9 26.5%
  • I have given up, and I don't plan to reef again.

    Votes: 1 2.9%
  • Other - please explain.

    Votes: 2 5.9%
Back
Top