I bet. Never been but I imagine it all politics all the time..Jerseys 10x better than DC
I’m in Camden county now too
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I bet. Never been but I imagine it all politics all the time..Jerseys 10x better than DC
I’m in Camden county now too
What is your travel time and distance?My wife received a heck of an opportunity that I'm not sure we can pass up. She has to respond by Friday for acceptance of the position.
While I'm extremely excited for her, I'm one that doesn't like change. It took some convincing to move to our current location 6 years ago. So I am filled with a mixture of emotions.
1. How many of you are in the Maryland/DC area? What is it like? Extracurricular activities (outside of reefing, believe it or not)? Schools?
2. How the heck do I move my established 210g system. I moved my 75g system on my own, this is a different beast.
3. Is it normal to feel guilting moving my son further away from my parents? We are 7.5 hrs now and will be ~12 hours. Not horrible, but I watched how it tore them up when my sister moved (albeit, she moved to north Maine, a bit different lol)
Please calm my nerves
I've got a great group here that do maintenance on tanks in the area. I used them for transporting the current 210 (they broke it down from previous owner that had it as a FOWLR for 2 years).If she’s got a great opportunity, hire a professional tank mover, that’s big water, do it right.
Your wife is got a great opportunity, so this will be a positive for all of you, you must live your lives.
Don’t feel guilty, feel excited.
Good luck.
Moving from Charleston South Carolina. Looking like we will be in the suburbs of Baltimore area. Looked at Frederick, MD earlier tonight. But that area in general.Where are you moving from now, and how long will the drive be?
1) I grew up outside of DC on the Virginia side until I was 21 or so, and then moved away….. best decision I ever made.
That place is a hell hole IMO, and it’s only gotten worse. Every time I’m back in the area it makes me happy I left.
The DMV area is the worst traffic in the country, by far worse than LA (I’ve driven both) and it’s normal to spend multiple hours every day in traffic. I once spent 2 hours to go 2 blocks and there wasn’t even anything special going on.
ALOT of the people in the area are shallow and fake and backstabbing because everyone’s looking to get a leg up on their competition in whatever govt or contacting company they work for. Just scummy vibes all around from my experiences.
As for moving the tanks it’s not that bad.
I moved a buddy
A 75g from Queens NYC to Richmond with zero casualties.
My suggestions for moving is to get a power inverter that connects to the cigaret outlet or wherever in the car so you can plug in a small heater and power head in the tubs with the fish and coral and then you’re good to drive 8 hours and get them into a tank.
Edit: just realized that it’s a 210 getting moved now, somehow slipped that sentence…
It’s either multiple people with tubs filling a few SUVS or getting like a cargo van rented. With that you’ve got a lot more space and you could keep the interior space air conditioned still and have access to power for power heads and air stones to keep water and oxygen going.
Looks like 8ish hoursWhat is your travel time and distance?
I like this idea. I floated it to the wife as a potential plan. It would be the "easiest" to keep the live stock going.A one-stage move will be difficult. I'd do this in 2 stages.
First: I'd get a new tank set up and running in the new house with some of your existing live rock to get the tank established.
Next: Once the new tank is running and stable, say after a week or so, move the remainder of your existing rock, corals and fish there. 8 hours in a car/truck is not a big deal for fish, corals or rock provided that you aerate the water.
If you must do it in one stage or don't want to spring for a new tank, I'd get a food grade IBC tote (275 gallon or larger) [e.g., https://charleston.craigslist.org/search/sss?query=IBC tote#search=1~gallery~0~0]
cut the top off so that it is open all around, put it in the truck and pump about 2/3 of your water in there. Move the fish, rock and corals into the tote and make sure that you have a bunch of aeration. Better still would be to aerate with a powerhead to circulate, run from a battery. Drain the tank and sump, break down the tank and load into the truck. I'd probably save this water in a 55g barrel (you can get from the same place as the IBC tote) so that you have enough water to set things up quickly in the new location.
Once at the new location, set the tank up asap, move the reserved water in there and set up the live rock and powerheads. Then, pump water from the tote into the tank and when it gets low enough to catch the fish, move them as well. Overall, this will be a long day's work, but should go smoothly.
This is much harder work and will cost you the tote, 55 g barrel (less than $200 for both) and a pump and sufficient hose to move the water back and forth if you don't already have one.
My only longer distance trip, I had 3 large coolers an ran a two outlet power inverter off cigarette lighter and ran 3 air pumps with air stone and check on fish bi-hourly. Also bring 1-2 buckets with lids of fresh mixed salt water for exchanges if needed. have a rubbermaid tub up and running as a temporary hold until you get the display tank set back up. I left water just over the sand to keep the bacteria aliveLooks like 8ish hours
Charleston, SC to Baltimore, MD (roughly)
I didn't mention the feelings were not so much due to the kids moving (we're in our 40s and late 30s), but more so the grand kids.move the parents to N Jersey so they are half way between both of you. Or CT.
CT, the tax state.move the parents to N Jersey so they are half way between both of you. Or CT.
Yea we've had a lot of pep talks about the move. Parents (mine at least) are onboard and excited now. Hers are less than thrilled, but they only come around once or twice a year as-is. So we aren't too hung up on it. Flights are cheap and fast!I'm in Bogota right now visiting my wife's son, wife and brand new baby. My wife has already said it's going to be hard to get on the plane Friday to go home.
I get it.
She calls him every week, sometimes multiple times a week. Video chats help the miles appear smaller.
Stand by your wife and support her and your parents will understand.
The tank, wow, going to be huge. If it's a summer move, no worry about heaters. But lots of buckets you will need.
Appreciate the nice gesture! I've got a 20g long and tall I use for QT, but I feel they may be too small for limping through a few days of rental.Really happy to read this! Glad things worked out on the sale and purchase, it's so stressful I know.
Wish I could help out, but I'm a few hours north. When passing through you could stop and pick up a 20g long I would donate
Goodluck with the logistics for the tank move, it sounds like you have some great fish that deserve a nice big new home with the rest of the family. I'll be following along.