thanks for chiming in!
so raise nutrients and siphon them out is the best plan?
Your welcome. Sorry you are here, but hey, you are in good company!
Yes, target > 10 NO3 and .1 PO4 or more. Many folks also dose silicates to feed diatoms so they can compete on the sand. Oh, the irony.
Others have placed chaeto on their sandbed; I don't understand the mechanism there, but reports of success with it are around here. Might be that it hosts amphipods which can eat amphids as they are non toxic.
Honestly, these are the hard ones to get rid of. Many, (most?) have resorted to siphoning out their sand bed, letting it dry, and gradually adding it back (later, if ever).