Keeping fish in pairs/harems

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I’m looking to stock a 75 reef and would like to keep pairs or trios of fish, not to breed, but to have the behavior of bonded pairs. Any safety would be fish food. I currently have a pair of cherub angels that have been the only fish in the for about 4 months and seem to have paired up without any problems. I do not want to add clowns to this tank, I’ll eventually get a new mate for the spotcintus I have in my other tank, but think they would be too aggressive with other fish.

Fish I am considering, and that it seems like folks have kept as pairs are listed below. Most literature says to only keep more than one in a tank if they are a mated pair, but I am not finding much info on how to get them to pair up and it is near impossible to determine the gender of most fish. Knowing that the male typically gets bigger doesn’t help if looking at immature fish.

- hawk fish, either flame or longnose (get 2 small or one small, one medium?)
- lawnmower blennies (maybe get 2 small captive bred?)
- Royal gammas (everything I read on them indicates this is most likely to end up with one or more dead fish, so I doubt I will attempt)
- gobies
- other suggestions? NOT clowns

Is the best approach to do like I did with the angels and get 2 small ones, with one bigger than the other and introduce with an acclimation box or tank divider?
 

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I’m looking to stock a 75 reef and would like to keep pairs or trios of fish, not to breed, but to have the behavior of bonded pairs. Any safety would be fish food. I currently have a pair of cherub angels that have been the only fish in the for about 4 months and seem to have paired up without any problems. I do not want to add clowns to this tank, I’ll eventually get a new mate for the spotcintus I have in my other tank, but think they would be too aggressive with other fish.

Fish I am considering, and that it seems like folks have kept as pairs are listed below. Most literature says to only keep more than one in a tank if they are a mated pair, but I am not finding much info on how to get them to pair up and it is near impossible to determine the gender of most fish. Knowing that the male typically gets bigger doesn’t help if looking at immature fish.

- hawk fish, either flame or longnose (get 2 small or one small, one medium?)
- lawnmower blennies (maybe get 2 small captive bred?)
- Royal gammas (everything I read on them indicates this is most likely to end up with one or more dead fish, so I doubt I will attempt)
- gobies
- other suggestions? NOT clowns

Is the best approach to do like I did with the angels and get 2 small ones, with one bigger than the other and introduce with an acclimation box or tank divider?
Firefish?
 

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Cardinalfish are another great option! Banggai cardinals are really popular but longspine/threadfin cardinals are my favorite! I haven't kept any yet, but it seems like they are pretty easy to shoal or pair.
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I added two (one larger, one smaller) royal grammas to my (220g) tank a year or so ago, and predictably, the smaller one disappeared.

For several months.

After returning from a two week expedition, there were suddenly two grammas in the tank again. They're pretty inseparable much of the time, frequently displaying to one another or investigating caves together. I suspect that the "missing" gramma (the smaller / female) was holed up in a cave, possibly with eggs.

There are other pairs in the tank as well: azure damselfish, tailspot blennies, flame angelfish and aurora gobies. (The banggai cardinalfish appear _not_ to be a pair; they're adult size, but almost always on opposite ends of the 6' tank.)

~B.
 
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Some good suggestions here.

I didn’t think a 75g was big enough for a group of anthias? I’m also a little concerned about keeping them adequately fed. I nee to do more research.

Firefish are a definite possibility - I forgot about them

I’m not a fan of cardinals or mollies (if I wanted them I would go back to freshwater).

I recall reading somewhere that some species of gobies can be kept in pairs, but can’t find where I read that or which ones.
 
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I’m not a fan of cardinals or mollies (if I wanted them I would go back to freshwater).
Aww... you made him cry :( what the heck man
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Masked gobies and tiger gobies are something you should look into, they are really small and you can keep them in groups of three or four
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Masked goby
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Tiger goby
 

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You can do chalk bass instead of royal grammas

The barnacle blennies can be kept in groups
I love barnacles blennies!!! :star-struck:
Here's some pics from The Blenny Watcher
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Ned-DeLoach-8-Koke-gimpo-Blenny-Izu-Peninsula-Japan.jpg

I don't think these two species are avlible to the hobby but the ones that are, are just as great!
 

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